Safe Havens and Safe Bases
We hear all the time in our clinical practice that moms are anxious about ensuring that they are building a secure attachment with their little ones. And our biggest message is that doing so does NOT require perfection, but connection. Attachment is based on:
- A sense of safety
- A sense of feeling seen (attuned to)
- The experience of being comforted, valued, or delighted in
- A sense of support
You can’t spoil a baby — so pick them up, give them cuddles and comfort when they cry, smile with them as they explore, and be present with them to encourage their growth. One of our favorite models for this is the Circle of Security. Check out all the amazing resources on their website for more support being your child’s safe haven and safe base.